Your personality and expectations create all around you, It is a reality – and now cognitive science confirms that also. People who believe in themselves and use positive speaking, actually use more brain capacity and have more options to overcome obstacles. And there is research that shows that we get more than others when we believe in them, writes Portal The Law of Attraction. It is no surprise that most dissatisfied people are feeling that way, for the same reasons: because they have poisonous expectations that create a negative reality. Some expectations usually disrupt life and reduce the chance, along with tips to overcome them.
Opportunities Will Show Themselves Without Reason – First Spirit Poison!
Although all the ways trying to connect with their intuition and spot signs of the Universe (God), that does not mean we should give up the active search for opportunities. Due to the expectation that you will be all environmentally best able to easily serve, might be very limited and are left at the mercy of other people’s whims. Instead, accept that a certain degree of hard work is essential for almost any kind of success, and then run and take what belongs to you! Here are some tips for opportunities: – Generally in life, be curious, – Occasionally – try new things, – Meet people outside your field (and in other countries/cultures)
I Should Like Them All – Second Spirit Poison
The raw truth is that you will never like them all, no matter how much you might like them. In most cases, the history of others, their fixation, and insecurity prevent them from seeing the best you have to offer. Then take it easy, no need to be nervous and panic. When you stop expecting that you will all like it, you will lay the foundation for meaningful relationships and a gradual realization of trust and respect – and you’ll also avoid a bunch of unnecessary grief.
Life Will Be Fair – Third Spirit Poison
We’ve all heard that life is not fair, but even if we know that it can be very difficult to accept in theory. On a subconscious level, many people still expect that everything will balance out and sit and hope this will happen. If you expect to do things, it’s time to take a more proactive stance and set up on your feet after you have met with obstacles in life. Ask yourself what you can do to make a difference and stop focusing on believing that you have bad luck.
People Can Read My Mind – Fourth Spirit Poison
This expectation is particularly problematic in romantic relationships but can cause problems in all areas of life. If we assume that people will always know what we’re trying to say, we will not try to explain. But the result is that you will be very misunderstood. To increase their communication skills, put ourselves in the place of another person (both intellectually and emotionally). What does she think about what you’re trying to say? What additional information does it need to understand you correctly?
Other People Should Get Along With Me – Fifth Spirit Poison
This is a tricky expectation – you deserve to be taken seriously and that people listen to your ideas. However, try to remember that things that are obvious to us can look like a completely different person with a different history, which has a different value. It is often more productive to accept that there could be more than one correct answer to a controversial issue and shift your attention to the more important question: how to find a compromise to meet everyone’s basic needs.
Material Goods Will Make Me Happy – Sixth Spirit Poison
Of course, some things make life easier, more fun, and more enjoyable. However, do not fall into the trap and start to believe that it will lead to the accumulation of cases of true happiness. What brings us pleasure and an emotionally fulfilling life is not material gain. A lot of people instead say things like? “I know that I will feel good after you buy a new car / new house when you gain more money.” Material goods will not be able to make you happy if you can’t find their true meaning if you don’t live by their values and don’t know yourself.
I Will Not Fail – Seventh Spirit Poison
Finally, as noted at the outset, if you expect failure, then all you’re doing is pure preparation for disaster! Far better to accept that sometimes things go well and sometimes do not. You were adding this assumption that you can always learn and grow from the things that you interpret as a failure. However, you will succeed after you invest some effort, using techniques such as affirmations and visualization to maximize your belief. As the above-mentioned studies show, this will increase your chances of getting what you want.